Category Archives: Social Psychology Education
Posts discussing concepts learned in social psychology classes.
Drawing is one of the many forms of creativity. We often start off when we are young drawing houses or stick people and then a lot of people don’t go too much further than that. Well some people pick it up again in their adult years. I did! Read the rest of this entry →
I didn’t know how it was going to go. I didn’t know who would be there. Thunderstorms preceded the entertainment. Would people still come? Read the rest of this entry →
Posted in Balance, Depression, anger and negativity, Emotions, goal setting, Happiness, Self Esteem and Positivity, mental health, mental illness, Relationships, schizophrenia, Social Psychology Education, teens, young people, youth
When I was a kid we were driving to camp… my grandma was driving because my parents were away. When we had ten minutes left of the trip we decided we didn’t want to go. We were nervous and I had major butterflies in my tummy. We went anyway. It was really fun. We got to know lots of other kids. We got to sail, do archery, do crafts, swim, row, canoe and many other things. The best part was the wonderful camp-fires. Read the rest of this entry →
Healing means coming to an understanding of an issue. Healing means living well despite problems. To me this involves consciously creating a balance in my life between activity and stillness.
The yin and yang flow is one of masculine and feminine. It is part of the day and night opposites of sunlight and moonlight. I want to discuss one aspect of this balance. This is the two states that include ‘change’ and ‘staying the same’ as they relate to wellness. The greater natural world around us finds a balance and so can we!
A chronic illness can cause too much pain. Improving the patterns of health can mean adapting to change. Sometimes people may feel better to stay at the level of health they find themselves in even if they are quite sick. At other times they may feel strong enough and hopeful enough to try and increase their stamina, endurance and strength.
When is it time for change?
A person may go from fairly inactive to active. A person may start replacing sugar snacks with fruit. A person might rest a lot and then join a new choir. A person may read a lot and then participate in an acting club. Change can motivate, invigorate and stimulate us. For the person dealing with illness change becomes a little more complex as aches, pains, moods and stamina have to be taken into consideration. Sometimes it’s all one can do to just stay the same.
Health returns in seasons….
If it is like a Winter season in your life it may be time to try and move more slowly to protect the gains you have previously made and not make any big changes. It is good to move slowly to help you settle and stay with the progress you have made over the past while. Concentrating on keeping to a routine at this time and accomplishing the regular tasks is important. There is a rhythm to this kind of living that gives nourishment and strength. When you have a bad day you don’t have to think too hard because you know your daily schedule, you know what lies ahead.
As we feel more able to do things it may seem more like Spring. We do want to enjoy some of the fruits of our labour. Some of us have worked so hard to become more well with medicine, good food, rest and nourishment. At this time it’s nice to introduce more activity into your life. For some, this may be adding exercise to your routine. You have the possibility of going walking, biking, roller blading. swimming or you might find some gentle exercise like Tai Chi or yoga particularly healing. It’s nice just to move around and find that the body likes this kind of exercise and can adapt to this new place of strength. Enjoying the exercise you do may help you stay healthier longer. This kind of change, at the right time, can increase your well-being.
Breaking up a routine
Other seasons of life bring their own demands. It is nice to be flexible and to accept the changes that make life better for you and for those around you. Spontaneity can bring excitement, hope and friendship. It can support a playful time period and give us a reminder that the universe is bigger and more generous than we think. Starting your day in a different way a couple of times a week could give you a wake up call. Things could be more exciting than you think. I love to call up a friend and right away meet for coffee. This to me is a wonderful freedom and shows the supportive miracle friendships can bring.
Whether to change or stay the same is the question.
The answer is up to you. Consider balance in your answer to this dilemma. If you have changed recently maybe now you will stay the same. If you’ve stayed the same maybe now you will try a change. Keeping in a momentum where we are gentle with ourselves and our changes helps us feel the continuity of our lives. When changes are prepared for, the change makes sense and can be incorporated easier. What kind of exercise is your favourite and is it the right season in your life to give it a try?
This past weekend was earth hour where people used less electricity. People became more aware, even for just a short time, of our impact on the earth. I love the conversation around earth hour about the way it is a magical time. Earth day is coming up on April 22nd. It is another special day to think of the earth and the way you relate to it.
Consider celebrating it in your own way but here are some suggestions. Write a special poem for a friend or write a letter to the editor about your impression of the environment. Do some picking up of litter or start using a composter. Prune or re-pot some plants. Whatever you decide, be sure to: reduce, reuse and recycle. Read the rest of this entry →
It is the season for mental health advice. There are blogs, self-help books and magazines all around. It looks as though most of the information is about problems. The description of problems often includes labels and their definitions of different mental illnesses. They don’t even know exactly what mental health label each of us is dealing with?
Peter Pan convinces the children to fly by thinking happy thoughts. Maybe this fairy tale has a grain of wisdom in it. I think happy thoughts are beneficial to the child in all of us because even though we don’t physically fly, we can lighten our burdens with a positive outlook. It is my suggestion that people talking about positive thinking should talk about mental health problems less often and about mental wellness more often.
A Light In The Distance
When I began using coping skills to deal with mental health dilemmas I became smarter and funnier and more present. It occurred to me with my new skills there could be names for genius levels of thinking and problem solving and brain storming. Names to describe the good mental health. I’d like to call a person who looks at things differently, a person with advanced perspectives in wellness. I’d like to call a person with skills in brain storming, a person with advanced idea generation abilities. These are just a couple of the ways skills could be identified. Focusing on what we do well may indeed increase our abilities to do those things even better.
Striving towards something is satisfying. We can set our goals and priorities and stick to the course with our wellness. Yes, I’ve found this works, but we have to be careful when we travel this road. Different issues can come up even when we have a more positive outlook on mental health. We have to try not to get ahead of ourselves! The body assimilates information and emotions and learning in ways that all work together. If the person is not ready for advanced knowledge emotionally, their system may break down.
Balancing Mental Health
This is where I had trouble. I tried to become whole and complete and full of assimilated growth all at once in ways that were interesting but weren’t very practical. I had the courage to try something new. I had the positive thinking to get me through the activities. What I didn’t know was my limits, or how these things would affect me. Brain gym was one thing I tried. Too much, too fast, led me on quite a journey of major ups and downs and a lot of disappointments. Visualization led me to increased energy in dreaming and not the experience of putting things into everyday life. Counselling led me to have neat discussions but left me wanting to feel fixed after I expressed myself. Now that their isn’t the pressure of taking part in the actual therapies I can look back and use some of the beneficial parts of these therapies.
Identifying problems is important to some people. With clear ideas of the problems there can be an understanding and even a compassion that allows that problem to dissipate. Many people are glad to finally know what is wrong with them.
Wouldn’t it be nice to finally know what is right with us? How about Getting A’s in the area of mental health that could lead to motivation and inspiration across groups of people. Just what do we do well? Are you organized? Are you good at stress release? Do you care about other people?
Learning Never Ends
Talking about solutions can be pretty motivating in itself. Seeing a difference from one month to the next because of solutions put into practice is even better. Improving skills might feel too much like school, but what if we get to design our courses? It could be fun. We could excel in these courses because we were interested in picking them.
We could even build on our knowledge from when we were kids in school. We could study some more Shakespeare, try our hand at some mathematics and learn some new songs to sing. Who says education must only be for the youth? We could take a night school course. Or just remember the things we liked, keep learning about them.
Solutions, positive thinking, goals and education are all ideas for now and the future. They have been used before and can be used again. Let’s not talk as much about mental health problems that make people feel inferior but let’s talk about genius areas of mental health. Let’s face it, a depression or a bout of hallucinations can kick in some pretty amazing skills to help us face those symptoms. Just what are those skills we are learning? Can we take pride in those newly learned skills?
Some of the people I’ve been privileged to know with mental illness have shown these wellness skills. Some are extra-compassionate and excel at curiosity. Self-care is also an area of expertise for others. Humour is a skill some have and use as a great way to reach out.
I’m going to talk to some of my friends about their positive characteristics. The things that help them get through every day life and the things that they are admired for. These are solutions to problems. Our strengths help us with our weaknesses! It is time to listen, look and act on solutions, so more people can feel better and find relief from the focus on mental illness. Let’s talk mental wellness!
Posted in Balance, Depression, anger and negativity, Emotions, goal setting, Happiness, Self Esteem and Positivity, mental health, mental illness, New Age Psychology, schizophrenia, Seniors Mental Health, Social Psychology Education
This is Part II of a blog regarding a Canadian Mental Health Association program called, Lets Talk, which I worked on with coordinator Jackie Ralph in the high schools. We attempted to educate about mental health. We taught about ways to meet stress face to face by embracing relaxation and rejuvenation.
In part I, I displayed the reasons for such a program. I further discussed some of the reasons that teens feel extra stress. These reasons for their stress touched my heart and made me realize that young people care a great deal!
In part II, I share more of my personal involvement with the program. Read the rest of this entry →
Posted in Balance, Depression, anger and negativity, Emotions, goal setting, Happiness, Self Esteem and Positivity, mental health, mental illness, New Age Psychology, Relationships, schizophrenia, Social Psychology Education, youth
A change in Pace
Christmas is a great example of a time of change. It is a time when some people are off work. Groups and meetings are cancelled. During the holidays the pace of life changes.
People are out and about getting ready for Christmas. People that don’t celebrate Christmas will prepare for their own celebrations and rituals. Eventually the feasts and gift giving will take people’s attention at this festive time. Is this better than a rest? Read the rest of this entry →
Is getting older the same as growing up. I think everyone gets older but who really grows up? Growing up would have to do with maturing, understanding, forgiving and maybe getting wiser. Getting older on the other hand might mean getting wrinkles, sore knees, a persistent cough and a feeling of having lived some of the best times.
Whether I am growing older or growing up I hope I can accept life as it affects me. I mean I hope that I can role with the signs of aging. Going with the flow is a lot healthier than fighting this natural progression. Read the rest of this entry →
Yes that cozy, wonderful, deep, replenishing sleep, can be yours, for only letting go of worries and feeling the warmth of your own bed.
It seems that sleep is important to us. There are times when we can’t get enough and times when we get too much. You may find however that if you know a little more about your sleeping habits then your concious brain can work with your unconcious and vice versa to create a delightful sleep.
I once got a book out of the library on sleep. It helped me understand the cycles of sleep and to know just what my body was doing while I was lying there. One thing our bodies do while we sleep is to repair tissues and rejuvinate energies. Another thing we do is work through the processes of the day and prepare for the day to come. Often our dreams will help us with this. Read the rest of this entry →